Polyamorous Mindset

Polyamory (from Greek πολύ [poly, meaning many or several] and Latin amor [literally “love”]) is the desire, practice, or acceptance of having more than one loving, intimate relationship at a time with the full knowledge and consent of everyone involved.

Without delving deeply into the world of Polyamory, I would like to take a moment and appreciate the people and mindset that accompany such a way of living.

Recently I attended a gathering consisting of Polyamorous people, and those who were curious or interested. The atmosphere was so uplifting and free. These are people so filled with love, that they are incapable of directing it all at one person, for life. What a Beautiful idea. Humans loving each other freely, without limitations on the incredible connections that can be made in life.

Liberated from the stifling rules of monogamy, people can spread their love and have multiple meaningful and intimate relationships. As a result, sexuality flourishes and thrives, and the thrill of discovering new and fresh experiences inspires constant growth and stimulation.

Just as a child is fascinated and intrigued by a buzzing bee or floating feather, those who are polyamorous can appreciate the complexity and diversity of humans and test their curiosity without fear of judgment or hostility from their partners. Innocent love and playful hedonism makes a world where a person can never have too much passion or love, and where intense emotion is celebrated and shared. It is a world devoid of boredom, entrapment, and rigid rules. Compromise, honesty, and loyalty are valued just as they are in Monogamy, but without the possession, jealousy, and limitations that can cause a person to sacrifice incredible connections and opportunities.

Polyamory is a beautiful, Utopian idea. It is realistic for the complexity and capability for love that we possess. Those who live the Dream are warm-hearted, free-spirited, and accepting of human nature. To be free to love is the greatest feeling of all.